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	<title>Comments on: New Standards for Treatment for Colorado Domestic Violence Offenders</title>
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		<title>By: Debt Scotland</title>
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		<dc:creator>Debt Scotland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2011 07:14:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Some  truly  nice and useful   info   on this  site,  likewise  I  conceive the  pattern  has   fantastic  features.</description>
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		<title>By: Jennifer Langur</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer Langur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 05:37:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I must dispute the response from A Provider. These domestic violence laws in Colorado are indefensible.  To label someone an abuser because of one incident which represents something as dynamic as an intimate relationship is unforgivable and IS a ONE SIZE FITS ALL approach. Not all who are arrested are guilty of such terrible behavior as what the Colorado Board describes. Many times the relationship is simply sick and a woman calls the police during a heated argument. The restraining order can then be used by her to &#039;rob&#039; her partner of his belongings, his home, his children and his lively hood. This is simply unforgivable and does not represent due process of the law. I for one would not admit to being something I am not. Am I human and do I loose patience? Do I reach my limit when I am controlled? Am I tired of hearing from womens&#039; advocates about this nonsense? Absolutely. I do know that there are those people who fit the pattern of abuse; who are all about power and control; however, I also know that most who are arrested for this so-called crime do not. Many have alcohol problems which compounds their ability to interact in a healthy way. To take alcoholics and to try and fit these square pegs into a round hole is just plain ignorance. DV therapy/treatment is quite the industry as is substance abuse monitoring. No one will convince me otherwise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I must dispute the response from A Provider. These domestic violence laws in Colorado are indefensible.  To label someone an abuser because of one incident which represents something as dynamic as an intimate relationship is unforgivable and IS a ONE SIZE FITS ALL approach. Not all who are arrested are guilty of such terrible behavior as what the Colorado Board describes. Many times the relationship is simply sick and a woman calls the police during a heated argument. The restraining order can then be used by her to &#8216;rob&#8217; her partner of his belongings, his home, his children and his lively hood. This is simply unforgivable and does not represent due process of the law. I for one would not admit to being something I am not. Am I human and do I loose patience? Do I reach my limit when I am controlled? Am I tired of hearing from womens&#8217; advocates about this nonsense? Absolutely. I do know that there are those people who fit the pattern of abuse; who are all about power and control; however, I also know that most who are arrested for this so-called crime do not. Many have alcohol problems which compounds their ability to interact in a healthy way. To take alcoholics and to try and fit these square pegs into a round hole is just plain ignorance. DV therapy/treatment is quite the industry as is substance abuse monitoring. No one will convince me otherwise.</p>
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		<title>By: sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 00:15:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good blog.</description>
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		<title>By: A Provider</title>
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		<dc:creator>A Provider</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 20:08:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The first paragraph is an excellent summary of the new DVOMB standards that have in fact taken effect as of July 1. It is my understanding that the standards were changed because &quot;one size does not fit all&quot; as it pertains to offender treatment. The new standards are intensive, no one at this time can dispute that. Victim safety is of utmost concern and importance when treating offenders of DV.

You were also correct in stating that couple&#039;s counseling is not permitted while in DV offender treatment. As stated in 5.10 of the standards: &quot;The offender is the client in offender treatment, not the couple and not the relationship....Because of the potential therapuetic challenges of concurrent treatment along with dangers and risk to victim safety, this standard further clarifies that offenders will not participate in marriage or couple&#039;s counseling of any kind with anyone with the victim outside of offender treatment.&quot; Research shows that the incidence of offender violence against the victim INCREASES with couple&#039;s counseling before offender treatment is completed.

You refer to providers having an unobjective monetary stake in offender treatment because of the &quot;open ended&quot; treatment plans if a client remains in &quot;denial&quot; of his or her offense. As a provider, I do not and cannot force a client to accept accountability/responsibility for every aspect of their charged offense. I do however, expect a client to be aware of what they could have done differently in any given situation and to be able to verbalize that in a group setting. There are of course those clients that have a long history of violence that no matter what treatment they go through, they will continue to justify their own violent behavior...those folks are simply not amenable to treatment. The justice system must handle those folks.

What you do not mention is that many clients will be able to work through the competencies at their own pace. If they put actual work into the treatment program and process, he or she could possibly  successfully complete the program in a shorter period of time than the original 36 week previously mandated sentence. 

To imply that providers will try to get every penny they can out of offenders is well, offensive. I didn&#039;t go into this profession for the money. If I wanted to make a lot of money, I would have gone to law school. I&#039;m willing to bet that your retainer alone could pay for DV classes and much, much more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first paragraph is an excellent summary of the new DVOMB standards that have in fact taken effect as of July 1. It is my understanding that the standards were changed because &#8220;one size does not fit all&#8221; as it pertains to offender treatment. The new standards are intensive, no one at this time can dispute that. Victim safety is of utmost concern and importance when treating offenders of DV.</p>
<p>You were also correct in stating that couple&#8217;s counseling is not permitted while in DV offender treatment. As stated in 5.10 of the standards: &#8220;The offender is the client in offender treatment, not the couple and not the relationship&#8230;.Because of the potential therapuetic challenges of concurrent treatment along with dangers and risk to victim safety, this standard further clarifies that offenders will not participate in marriage or couple&#8217;s counseling of any kind with anyone with the victim outside of offender treatment.&#8221; Research shows that the incidence of offender violence against the victim INCREASES with couple&#8217;s counseling before offender treatment is completed.</p>
<p>You refer to providers having an unobjective monetary stake in offender treatment because of the &#8220;open ended&#8221; treatment plans if a client remains in &#8220;denial&#8221; of his or her offense. As a provider, I do not and cannot force a client to accept accountability/responsibility for every aspect of their charged offense. I do however, expect a client to be aware of what they could have done differently in any given situation and to be able to verbalize that in a group setting. There are of course those clients that have a long history of violence that no matter what treatment they go through, they will continue to justify their own violent behavior&#8230;those folks are simply not amenable to treatment. The justice system must handle those folks.</p>
<p>What you do not mention is that many clients will be able to work through the competencies at their own pace. If they put actual work into the treatment program and process, he or she could possibly  successfully complete the program in a shorter period of time than the original 36 week previously mandated sentence. </p>
<p>To imply that providers will try to get every penny they can out of offenders is well, offensive. I didn&#8217;t go into this profession for the money. If I wanted to make a lot of money, I would have gone to law school. I&#8217;m willing to bet that your retainer alone could pay for DV classes and much, much more.</p>
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		<title>By: Merle Medellin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Merle Medellin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 07:32:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post its was a terriffic read thanks for the share !...</description>
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